Friday, August 1, 2014

WHAT IS A FAMILY?

Family is humankind’s most basic social unit. It is a social institution primarily established by society to ensure its continuity and to regulate sexual behavior of its members. Since the infant is born helpless and dependent, the family has been socially constructed  to insure that there will be adult members who will look after the infant’s biological and emotional nurturance and safety. The family is the primary group where the child is initially socialized and initiated in the ways of life of his group. It also provides the child’s social, psychological, and emotional needs : warmth, intimacy, affection, love, nurturance, care and security.

The Family is “The nursery of human nature”

Delicate and fragile as he is, the child is given the most special care and attention and nurturance in the family, so that he is better equipped with knowledge and adaptive skills before he is “transplanted”  to a more or less inhospitable forces of the bigger society.

The basic foundation of a society is the family without the family there is no society.The failure of the family to develop good citizens of the society will result in the society’s problems and imperfections.


What is a household?



Household is a group of persons living under one roof and sharing the same kitchen and housekeeping arrangements. 



FUNCTIONS OF THE FAMILY

1. Regulates sexual behavior and is the unit for reproduction. Within the marriage, sex expression is socially sanctioned.

2. Performs the function of biological maintenance.  The human infant is born helpless and the parents fill the roles of protectors, providers, and guardians.

3. The family is the chief agency for socializing the child.  It transmits the culture of the group- it patterned ways of living and values.

4. The family gives its members status. A child is born into a family, which gives him a name and a lineage.

5. It is an important mechanism for social control.  It continually pressure on its members to make them conform to what it considers as desirable behavior.


              OTHER FUNCTIONS OF THE FAMILY

1. Economic – production, distribution and  consumption unit.

2. Educational – transforms the biological man into a functioning member of the society by learning the values, customs, traditions and the proper way of doing things.

3. Religious - preserver of religious traditions.

4. Political - child’s first government; learns authority and discipline



5. Recreational - socialization; learns basic skills and attitudes necessary for successful participation in his group.




Cultural Variables that Influence Family Life

1. Folkways – These are everyday habits; customs, traditions and conventions people obey without giving much thought to the matter. People  who violate folkways are labeled slobs or eccentrics but as a rule they are tolerated. 
    Relatively weak norms which are only mildly enforced in a society. (not against the law)
     Examples:
Correct manners.
Appropriate dress.
             Proper eating behavior.

2. Mores – these are the norms people consider vital to their wellbeing and most cherished values; they are special customs with moral and ethical significance, which are strongly held and emphasized. Mores are coercive and compulsory due to their moral and legal sanctions.

     The strong and important norms of a society. Violation of mores will evoke severe punishment. (against the law most of the time.)
    
      Examples of Mores
               1. Bigamy
               2. Incest
               3. Cannibalism

3. Folklore is traditional customs, beliefs, dances, song, tales or sayings preserved orally among a group or people.

4. Language is the special manner or characteristics mode of expression significant for human intercourse.

5. Values are abstract concepts of what is important and worthwhile.  They are  the general ideas that individuals share about what is good or bad, right or wrong, desirable and undesirable. 


     - something deserving of one’s best effort, something worth living for and, if need be, worth dying for.

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